我又太苛求了

I keep repeating the same mistake over and over again.
I assume they all are me; sometimes I even expect more than what they actually can do, and know how to do.
How can I be so cruel? They're just kids, but I'm trying very hard to push them to learn to be independent. It's for their own good too, that's what my mind says. But I forget that sometimes, there are many ways to show my love. Pamper them once a while can bring some cheers to them and me too.
"Never ever pushing someone to your limit!"