对4岁的要求

对4岁的孩子，what you expect from them?
to be academically well done? or social-emotional, sharing, team work well coping?
Satria children is the latter one. I have no idea how well they learned from my lessons, this week they have academic assessments, and average result I get... ... they have 1-2 points out of 10 points.
It'll be sad if the parents just wanting this toddlers to be academically good; they'll sure think that they've learn nothing in kindergarten. But in fact, they learned something invaluable that might benefit themselves and everyone around them in their lives.
How I wish the parents will discover these toddlers' good in this aspect.